I decided to try that again this morning when I went out to raise the gourd racks back up after I had lowered them yesterday for all the bad weather. After I had raised them back up I watched to see if I could see any of them eat the crickets. Instead I watched one female in particular systematically pick the crickets up one by one and fly away dropping them as she went.
She does not want them here nor there, she does not want them anywhere

It kinda cracked me up.
Im not going to give up tho.
The crows and the bluebirds are loving it!